Achieving New Year’s Resolutions

Achieving New Year’s Resolutions


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Research shows that “Achieving New Year’s Resolutions” are often difficult because they rarely stick. Have you ever thought about why this occurs and how you can make them last? As I write this it’s only 3 short days before we welcome 2019. But it could be 3 days away from 2020 or any New Year for that matter. It doesn’t really matter. The point that does matter is are you making goals that you are able to attain? Are you moving forward with your dreams and aspirations? Therefore the question to ask yourself is are you truly ready to stick to “Achieving New Year’s Resolutions?”


In the past, have you found yourself making New Year’s resolutions and after a few weeks you find yourself drifting back to old habits? Maybe if you’re really super determined, you quit after a couple of months. You’re not alone.


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Achieving New Year’s Resolutions- Plans


While many people have good intentions, without a solid plan, discipline, accountability, and a clear mindset, Achieving New Year’s Resolutions can become a thing of the past until the next year. Don’t despair. I’m sharing a few tips to teach you how to stick to them this time around.


 

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Six New Years Resolutions Tips



 

  • Create S.M.A.R.T. goals. I’m sure you’ve heard these before but are you putting them into practice? Goals need to be specific, measurable, attainable, realistic and timely. Here is an example. Let’s say you want to experience less anxiety and more peace in your life. You need to find a way to be specific as to what causes your anxiety. For example uncertainty at your job, finances, a relationship.

 

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Now using a scale of 1-10 to determine where you are and where you want to be. You also need to give yourself time to learn tools to manage anxiety and track your progress realistically. I ask my clients to record their moods daily for at least 30 days and notice thoughts that trigger anxiety or depression.


Keep yourself accountable. If you don’t have the resources to hire a coach or a therapist, ask a friend or colleague to be your buddy. Whenever you need to report your progress or lack of it to somebody you will take your goal more seriously. This person can also help you see blind spots and encourage you when you have an off day.


Achieving New Year’s Resolutions- Daily Acts


Do it daily! If you want to feel better, less anxious and more at peace you need to create healthy daily habits.  Some examples are meditation, relaxation, exercise, getting enough sleep and eating nutritious food. Good nutrition is vital and consists of as an example fresh vegetables, seeds, nuts, organic and grass-fed meat/poultry. In addition ideally, you want to dedicate at least 15 minutes in the morning and in the evening to practice positive self-thinking and self-love.


 

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Achieving New Year’s Resolutions- Summation


Work on your limiting beliefs. Think about why you haven’t been successful before. Many times, my clients know what the issue is yet they don’t know how to stop or change. If you want to change your beliefs you need to first know what they are. Often, I hear this, “I am not good enough” or “I am a failure.” A great tool is to question your beliefs and ask yourself if they are still serving you. If you determine the answer is it is “not”, now it’s time to create new ones. You see many beliefs, for example, were formed before age 7 when we were young children and didn’t know any better.


You need to believe in yourself and never give up even when you have an off day. Create visual representations that you can see daily such as a vision board. A vision board has been my friend and over the years I have had several of them. I’m a firm believer in using them because they are powerful! My vision boards even helped me find my soulmate as well as enabling me to create a vision for my life. It’s getting closer to my dream every day. Persistence and determination go a long way.


Wishing you a happy, healthy, peaceful and prosperous New Year.

Remember that you and only YOU are the creator of your life, so stick to it!

 

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If you can’t come to our office right now after all Mateja Petje offers online and distance therapy! Don’t wait to get better on your own. We all need help sometimes so why delay your happiness because in the final analysis your mental and physical health is priceless! However no one can motivate you to take the initiative to heal and make the first phone call but you. So please make the phone call all things considered you’re possibly in a dark place and need a fresh start!


 

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She has both the official credentials and experience from her formal education as well as training and experience in numerous alternative methods of healing. Also, she continues to educate herself in new methodologies. This enables her to have all of the tools available for SHARING with each individual to create his/her optimal healing journey.


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Gratitude Goodwill Bliss

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Law of Gratitude


I say “Gratitude is the beginning of a blissful life.” Are you stressed out or are you feeling stuck? So start being grateful! Being gratitude is mostly at the forefront of people’s minds especially at this time of year with Thanksgiving for example. However, if we start our day with gratitude on a daily basis, even in the midst of our challenges, amazingly, it seems more often our lives will start to change in a more positive direction. I call this Blog “Gratitude Goodwill Bliss”. My goal is to help us all go from “Stress to Bliss”.


Law of Attraction


I must admit that I have not always felt this way. You see I used to be upset with events and people when things did not go as I had planned. Things started to change when I started to apply the teachings of the Law of Attraction and observing my thoughts and guiding them.  Sometimes we get angry with the world or God (as we may perceive it), but this is exactly the time when we need to apply the Law of Gratitude. There might be lessons to be learned that we might not be aware of. 


 

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“The Science of Being Rich”


In the past I did a program called “The Science of Being Rich” by Nancy Matthews. A co-founder of Women’s Prosperity Network in Plantation, Fl. The program is based on the teachings of Wallace D. Wattles. Prior to that, I had also studied Harv Eker’s the Secrets of the Millionaire Mindset. Whatever book or program you decide to follow, the key is to be disciplined and consistent. Years of conditioning will not change overnight. It requires patience, faith, and willingness to change your outdated belief patterns


 

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Gratitude Goodwill Bliss- Misery


You may even face resistance from your loved ones and people that are close to you! As the saying goes “misery loves company.” But so does goodwill and gratitude. Whenever possible, surround yourself with people who have a positive outlook on life. Don’t waste time by complaining, blaming others and playing a victim.


In his book, Wallace states that “the more gratefully we fix our minds on the supreme good, when things come to us, the more good we will receive, and the more rapidly they will come.“ Grateful mind brings us closer to the Creator, God, Life Force, Higher Power or however you want to call it, from which the blessings come.


He further states that it is absolutely necessary to follow the Law of Gratitude in order to achieve the results we are seeking. Whether this is financial prosperity, health, relationships or buying a new home.


 

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Gratitude Goodwill Bliss- Emotions


When I work with clients, they often become angry, depressed, and anxious. As well as hopeless about their life, not knowing how to change things. The first thing I tell them is to start focusing and observing their language and their thoughts. Then to start changing their thoughts in order to change their emotions.


I believe that we are all the creators of our life. By choosing our thoughts and being grateful for everything in our life (yes even tough lessons and pain) we will create a life that we have always wanted. Wallace also adds that “without gratitude you cannot long keep from dissatisfied thoughts regarding things as they are. The moment you PERMIT your mind to dwell with dissatisfaction upon things as they are, you begin to lose ground.”  The grateful mind is constantly fixed upon the best.


Gratitude Goodwill Bliss- Faith


In addition, FAITH is born of gratitude. We need to have faith in ourselves that we can overcome our “Conditioned Self”. Primarily this is based on fear, worry and negativity. This is the time to perform a daily action of thinking about what we are grateful for. It could be as simple as being grateful for a nice sunny day (and we are very lucky here in South Fl when the rest of the country has winter storms and cold).


I suggest to my clients to keep a daily gratitude and intention journal. Writing things down can make a huge difference. We want to live in our “Authentic Self” which is based on love, gratitude, joy and faith.


 

Don’t wait to get help when you feel stuck, stressed-out or depressed.


I’m a phone call away! 561 299 1028 


Click here to visit my website and book a FREE 15 minute consultation 



 

Mateja Petje Holistic Coaching


Virtual Address 2234 N Federal Hwy #3094 Boca Raton, Fl 33431


 


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If you can’t come to our office right now after all Mateja Petje offers online and distance therapy! Don’t wait to get better on your own. We all need help sometimes so why delay your happiness because in the final analysis your mental and physical health is priceless! However, no one can motivate you to take the initiative to heal and make the first phone call but you. So please make the phone call. All things considered you’re possibly in a dark place and need a fresh start!


Client Testimonial


“After being in traditional therapy and making no progress, I explored the option of holistic therapy with Mateja. I loved that her approach was focused on me and how to move forward with my anxiety, negative thoughts & relationship perceptions, instead of focusing on the problems and where they stemmed from. With EFT, affirmations and tracking my moods, it created more self awareness around my emotions and where they were coming from. After 4-5 months, my anxiety levels is nearly nonexistent” Jessica in Boca Raton 11/16


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