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Achieving New Years Resolutions

Achieving New Years Resolutions

Achieving New Years Resolutions are often difficult because they rarely stick. Have you ever thought about why this occurs and how you can make them last? As I write this it’s only 5 short days before we welcome the year 2019. Are you ready to stick to your resolutions? In the past, have you found yourself making New Year’s resolutions and after a few weeks or if you’re more determined, after a couple of months, you find yourself drifting back to old habits?
You are not alone.

Achieving New Years Resolutions with a plan

While many people have good intentions, without a solid plan, discipline, accountability, and a clear mindset, New Year’s resolutions can become a thing of the past until the next year. Don’t despair. I’m sharing a few tips to teach you how to stick to them this time around.

 

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6 Tips to Help You Stick to Your Resolutions:

 

  • Create S.M.A.R.T. goals. I’m sure you’ve heard these before but are you putting them into practice? Goals need to be specific, measurable, attainable, realistic and timely. Here is an example. Let’s say you want to experience less anxiety and more peace in your life. You need to find a way to be specific as to what causes your anxiety. For example uncertainty at your job, finances, a relationship.

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  • Now using a scale of 1-10 to determine where you are and where you want to be. You also need to give yourself time to learn tools to manage anxiety and track your progress realistically. I ask my clients to record their moods daily for at least 30 days and notice thoughts that trigger anxiety or depression.
  • Keep yourself accountable. If you don’t have the resources to hire a coach or a therapist, ask a friend or colleague to be your buddy. Whenever you need to report your progress or lack of it to somebody you will take your goal more seriously. This person can also help you see blind spots and encourage you when you have an off day.
  • Do it daily! If you want to feel better, less anxious and more at peace you need to create healthy daily habits.  Some examples are meditation, relaxation, exercise, getting enough sleep and eating nutritious food. Good nutrition is vital and consists of as an example fresh vegetables, seeds, nuts, organic and grass-fed meat/poultry. In addition ideally, you want to dedicate at least 15 minutes in the morning and in the evening to practice positive self-thinking and self-love.

 

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Achieving New Years Resolutions & 6 Tips to Help You Stick to Your Resolutions cont’d 

 

 

  • Work on your limiting beliefs. Think about why you haven’t been successful before. Many times, my clients know what the issue is yet they don’t know how to stop or change. If you want to change your beliefs you need to first know what they are. Often, I hear this, “I am not good enough” or “I am a failure.” A great tool is to question your beliefs and ask yourself if they are still serving you. If not it’s time to create new ones as many were formed before age 7 when we were young children and didn’t know any better.
  • Believe in yourself and never give up even when you have an off day. Create visual representations that you can see daily such as a vision board. A vision board has been my friend and over the years I have had several of them. I’m a firm believer in using them because they are powerful! My vision boards even helped me find my soulmate as well as enabling me to create a vision for my life. It’s getting closer to my dream every day. Persistence and determination go a long way.

Wishing you a happy, healthy, peaceful and prosperous 2019. Remember that you and only YOU are the creator of your life, so stick to it!

 

Don’t wait to get help when you feel stuck, stressed-out or depressed.

I’m a phone call away! 561 299 1028 

Click here to visit my website and book a FREE 15 minute consultation 

 

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Office: 5301 N Federal Hwy, #370,  ​Boca Raton, FL 33487 ​

(Boca Greenhouse building off Yamato & US1) 

 

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Happy Holidays!

Mateja Petje offers online and distance therapy in times when you are unable to visit our office right now

We accept all Major Insurance Carriers (BCBS, Cigna, Aetna, and out-of-network)

If you can’t come to our office right now after all Mateja Petje offers online and distance therapy! Don’t wait to get better on your own. We all need help sometimes so why delay your happiness because in the final analysis your mental and physical health is priceless! However no one can motivate you to take the initiative to heal and make the first phone call but you. So please make the phone call all things considered you’re possibly in a dark place and need a fresh start!

 

CLIENT TESTIMONIAL

 

That’s how I would define Mateja Petje of Create Her Bliss and Holistic Coaching International. I have always found her to be genuine and deeply CARING in helping others. Her journey in life has made her uniquely qualified to understand, empathize and facilitate healing.

She has both the official credentials and experience from her formal education as well as training and experience in numerous alternative methods of healing. Also, she continues to educate herself in new methodologies. This enables her to have all of the tools available for SHARING with each individual to create his/her optimal healing journey.

Now is a great time to reach out to Mateja for kind and discreet assistance. CB

 

 

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Mental Health Benefits of Physical Exercise

Mental Health Benefits of Physical Exercise

 

Mental Health Benefits of Physical Exercise are numerous! I must admit, I’ve never been the typical “gym rat.” Luckily I grew up in the mountains of Slovenia where there are plenty of hiking opportunities. Frankly I’ve always loved the outdoors. Even when I was in college, I still found time on weekends to go hiking with my friends. It was fun and it helped me to stay fit. At the same time I also enjoyed the company of my friends.

 

In addition to hiking, dancing has also been my passion. Initially, that meant going to clubs. It wasn’t really until I turned 26 and broke up with my ex that I found solace in dancing. This was while healing a broken heart after he cheated with one of my childhood friends. My dysfunctional family, the hurt and pain related to my childhood and adolescent abuse, as well as a broken heart, led me to move to the US in October of 1997. This is where I joined my now ex-husband an American.

 

Importance of exercise

 

I never truly understood the importance of exercise until years later. One of my boyfriends who was an athlete and a runner encouraged me to join the gym. At this point I didn’t enjoy going to clubs anymore. At that time as well I didn’t enjoy listening to hip-hop, dance, or techno. But I did take some belly dancing classes and I danced at drumming circles.

 

 

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Medication & their Side Effects 

 

My healing journey took me to work with traditional psychotherapists, coaches, healers, and psychics. I was on and off medication for clinical depression and anxiety for the last 20 years. It had bad side effects such as weight gain, loss of libido, gastrointestinal issues, and even suicidal thoughts when life pressure and stress got to me.

 

Researching Alternative and Holistic approaches

 

 

Over time I kept researching alternative and holistic approaches to healing from abuse, trauma, chronic anxiety and depression. I learned about Buddhism and Hinduism and started meditating. This is something I have been doing for 20 years now. Still, I have not been able to find lasting solutions to stay off medication for any extended periods of time. Stress didn’t help me! You see I had worked at many toxic workplaces while building my private counseling and coaching practice.

 

Learning about functional medicine

 

 

Finally, a few years ago I learned about functional medicine. Now I began to understand the connection between my mental health and nutrition, as well as my gastrointestinal issues and lack of exercise due to working long hours. So I adopted a healthier, low carb diet. Quickly I lost over 15 lbs and I was able to get off medication and started taking B12 and CQ10 supplement.

 

I also stopped binge-watching Netflix and avoided drama and violence. Functional medicine, as opposed to traditional Western medicine, is more concerned with root causes, not symptom reduction, quick fixes, and taking an antidepressant or anti-anxiety medication.

 

 

According to functional medicine, the key steps to health include:

 

 

 

 1. Proper nutrition (rich in healthy fats, veggies, protein, nuts, seeds, and fruit)

 2. Exercise (daily as much as possible)

 3. Adequate sleep (minimum 7-8 hrs.)

 4. Nurturing relationships and socializing

 5. Stress management and spiritual practices

 

 

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James M Greenblatt, MD, Breakthrough Depression Solution

 

 

According to James M Greenblatt, MD, in his book Breakthrough Depression Solution, exercise is important and plays a key role in fighting depression. Several studies have proven the efficacy of exercise in significantly decreasing depression symptoms. For example, in a study conducted in 2013, researchers assigned 48, alcohol-dependent, inactive patients to a twelve-week, moderate exercise program.

 

The other group of participants was simply told to exercise. The participants reported far less drinking as compared to those who had been simply told to exercise. Similarly, in another study conducted by a Columbia University of Epidemiology survey, over 60% of participants who exercised were much less likely to suffer a major depression (p. 152).

 

 

According to Dr. Greenblatt, exercise has several benefits in fighting depression (p. 154):

 

  1. Reverses Harmful Effects of Stress
  2.  Lifts Depression
  3.  Improves Learning
  4.  Builds Self-esteem and Improves Body Image
  5.  Leaves You Feeling Euphoric or Joyful

 

He also recommends taking supplements such as B12 and Carnitine, as many clients have very low energy and lack the motivation to exercise. The best type of exercise is probably interval training, because it helps to get the heart rate up quickly. However, any type of exercise can help including walking, yoga, Tai chi, strength training, biking, swimming or dancing.

 

It’s important that you set realistic goals and start slowly.For example, 15 minutes three times a week gradually increasing your exercise time. Do what you love and don’t force yourself to go to the gym if it’s not your cup of tea.
Have fun!

 

Don’t wait to get help when you feel stuck, stressed-out or depressed.

I’m a phone call away! 561 299 1028 

Click here to visit my website and book a FREE 15 minute consultation 

 

Mateja Petje Holistic Coaching International Natural Stress Management
Office: 5301 N Federal Hwy, #370,  ​Boca Raton, FL 33487 

(Boca Greenhouse building off Yamato & US1)

 

 

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Happy Holidays!

Mateja Petje offers online and distance therapy in times when you are unable to visit our office right now

We accept all Major Insurance Carriers (BCBS, Cigna, Aetna, and out-of-network)

If you can’t come to our office right now after all Mateja Petje offers online and distance therapy! Don’t wait to get better on your own. We all need help sometimes so why delay your happiness because in the final analysis your mental and physical health is priceless! However no one can motivate you to take the initiative to heal and make the first phone call but you. So please make the phone call all things considered you’re possibly in a dark place and need a fresh start!

 

Client Testimonial

 

“After my mother passed away and I felt as though I was at a crossroads in my life as well as in my relationship, I sought the help of Mateja. Without pressure or judgment, she helped me come to grips with the decision I ultimately had to make and gave me tools to use in order to come to that difficult decision. She provided me with many helpful tips, tools and resources to achieve my goals in life that I will continue to use throughout my life. I learned a great deal from Mateja and her methods and am grateful I sought help from her.” ~AD

 

 

 

The Happiness Program
Also know as the Art of Living Part 1 course, is an introduction to the world of meditation and stress free living.